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Leaf
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Post subject: Love Spells?  Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 7:42 pm |
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does anyone have any? or something..if so ill be in touch..thanks
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Lion Spirit
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Post subject: Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 7:50 pm |
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Location: Salford, Greater Manchester, England. Image copyright: www.Copyright-free-photos.org.uk
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My personal opinion is that love spells should not be used if they are intended to make another person "fall in love" with you, because:
To make someone want you when they didn't previously, is to mess about with their free will (akin to giving them mind-altering drugs)... to finally move on to having sex with them is raping them, because they are not consenting of their own free will (just as they would not be consenting of their own free will if they had been given mind-altering drugs - hence having sex with someone who has been drugged is, in England at least, considered to be rape under English law)
That said, I guess a spell to bring love (that already exists for you) closer to you would be OK, or a spell to bring someone (who is supposed to meet you and fall in love with you) nearer to you and faster
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Morgana.T
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Post subject: Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 7:51 pm |
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freyja
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Post subject: leaf Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 7:27 am |
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Leaf don't. If you could look into the future and see all the potential consequences of a love spell I promise you wouldn't do one.
A good guide is not to do spells that will change the behaviour of another. If the person is desired to fall in love naturally why would a spell work, it's the strongest emotion after all? Whoever this spell may be for the benefit of they deserve someone to love them for what they are, not because of a spell.
Freyja
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adarian
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Post subject: Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 1:16 pm |
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| Magicka Guardian, Life Member & Ezine |
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Yes!!!! What everyone has posted for you is EXTREMELY GOOD ADVICE.
The only thing I could say that you could do is things ONLY for yourself. More confidence in yourself, your own self image and stuff, but NEVER, I mean NEVER play with anyone else's will. I hope that didn't come off to strong  , but I just wanted to really let you know.
Now in the Book of Shadows section there are spells for confidence, looks and stuff. You might want to check that out. As for the link Dracos gave you that is wonderful information in itself for you too! 
If you need anything please do not hesitate to ask. If you need advice on something for yourself in this matter please ask also. We will be more than happy to help guide you.
Brightest Blessings!
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It is the song that holds the atoms together, the stars in their places, the galaxies in theirs. Ekstasis song keeps our hearts beating, and is the love and trust that flows through them. From the Fairies Oracle by: Brian Froud and Jessica Macbeth
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Leaf
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Post subject: Posted: Thu May 10, 2007 7:07 pm |
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| Baby Dragon |
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yeah okay thanks guys...i was just going through something tough but now i dont want to do a love spell....i was just being stupid..but thanks everyone...that helped 
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Feytouched
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Post subject: Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 9:23 pm |
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I've always thought that if a love spell is needed, then you cast it on yourself, to bring you love... You do not try to direct it, you just send it out, and when the universe finds someone else who is looking for the same things you are, then you will come together. There is no manipulation of another, because the spell is simply seeking someone who would be a good match... you, yourself, still have to work to make them love you! 
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freyja
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Post subject: Posted: Tue May 15, 2007 7:30 am |
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Feytouched wrote: I've always thought that if a love spell is needed, then you cast it on yourself, to bring you love... You do not try to direct it, you just send it out, and when the universe finds someone else who is looking for the same things you are, then you will come together. There is no manipulation of another, because the spell is simply seeking someone who would be a good match... you, yourself, still have to work to make them love you! How would you control who is attracted to you and how far they would want to go to show/satisfy that attraction? Your intentions would be one thing, the spell another because love is far too powerful too mess with. It is a precious gift and for that reason love spells won't work the way you intend. There are two sides to every intention and love spells have a knack of playing tricks.
Anyone can do a love spell, just be prepared for consequences.
Freyja
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Feytouched
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Post subject: Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 7:03 pm |
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Sorry, I should've been more clear. I meant that the spell should be made to help increase your confindence to bring one who was already meant for you to meet... 
And yes, they can backfire, especially if your intent is mis-directed. I don't support them, and won't cast them, but I've made it a habit of finding out how to do everything... In my mind, you never know when a "rule" that works for another kind of working, can be used for other purposes as well!
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Shewolf Agalia
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Post subject: Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 12:44 pm |
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I can speak from experiance. I cast a spell to bring forth a man who would be attracted to me. I wrote down the things I wanted in a man and the things I could offer him, I buried it under a tree and poured milk on it. I asked the goddess to bring forth this man. It worked, I feel inlove with him, but he left me. Be careful with love magic. However the guy I was seeing did like me I dont think he was really inlove with me...but if I hadnt of done it he would never have asked me out, he told me he is very shy and I apparantly made the fisrt move. Even though I'm unhappy now I dont regret casting it. *I didnt cast the spell on his freewill, I did it with no one spefic in mind*. General love spells are better then manpilulative ones. But still be careful, it can still bring nasty people into your life and have bad reprecussions
Brighest Blessings,
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Post subject: Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2007 11:24 pm |
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In my opinion, casting a spell to make someone fall in love with you is black magick. A definition I think would be appropriate in this case, taken from a Wikipedia article (view article here) is:
Black magic would be invoked to kill, injure, or cause destruction, or for personal gain without regard to harmful consequences to others.
In the case of a love spell, it is particular to note the "...for personal gain without regard to harmful consequences to others." When you perform a love spell, in the sense that I have mentioned, you are forcing a person to like you and/or have intimate feelings towards you that they would otherwise not have under their own free will.
No matter what type of spell or charm you are casting (even ones that seem to not affect anyone but yourself) , you should always perform a divination to see the possible outcomes and effects is has.
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Black Diamond
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Post subject: Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 1:01 am |
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What about if you want to cast a spell that isn't necessarily changing someones will but like a prayer for them to be open to all forms of love, so that the love they are wanting can freely come in? I'm curious since my brother asked me would I do a love spell. It would be my first spell so any advice would be welcome.
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Post subject: Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 10:09 pm |
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Hi Irridescent White,
What you're talking about for your brother, I don't see so much as manipulative, but more like self-help or self empowerment. This is to me a much healthier and safe way to go anyway He'd be working on himself and building himself up, to be more confident.
Do you think he would take part in the spell in any way? _________________ Please PM me anytime, I'm happy to help!! 
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Black Diamond
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Post subject: Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 1:33 am |
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Blessings. Unfortunately I don't think he would participate. I think he would prefer to sit back and watch to see if it works LOL. I am planning to do it around the time of the next full moon. I do want to express to him that in order for this to be any good at all he needs patience and it will ultimately require input from him. And by that I mean belief in himself. Because it's not really about just finding love with another, its about love of self and I think he has had a lot of trouble doing that for a long time. So I am wondering how do I set out the spell etc? Any advice is welcome. BTW...Love your Yule signature Love and light. _________________
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Amethyst
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Post subject: Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 3:09 am |
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Irridescent White wrote: I think he would prefer to sit back and watch to see if it works LOL.
Hehe, I hear ya. His energies and belief could just be what does the trick though, you are right.
Anyway, I followed a link here which led to another - and found a nice and simple exercise which looks easily adaptable enough- Click here
Just scroll down to the section ~ To become open to new relationships: (Dorothy Morrison) and see what you think. _________________ Please PM me anytime, I'm happy to help!!
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